When a relationship or job ends, look at it as being pushed out so you can be pushed up. It may not feel good right now knowing you’ve got to start all over again. it may seem unfair and frightening, but just begin to realize there is a reason and season for everything. great things, new things can happen if you can just hold on to your faith, positive attitude and self-determination to rise again. Sometimes a kick in the butt pushes us forward.